A few months back I went to the gas station to fill up my car. The gas station was busy and no pumps were available so I began my wait for a pump to open up. The person behind me, who had a pump open up for him on the side which he happened to need, started getting impatient with me and honked his horn at me a couple times before getting out of his car and very impolitely saying "If you move forward, I could get to the pump!" Before I could respond with "I have to leave room for the person in front of me to get out" he had turned and was walking back to his car. His car which was a huge, obnoxious, bright yellow SUV; maybe if you had a sedan you could maneuver the vehicle in tight situations such as this, sir. The entire time he pumped gas he did not even look in my direction and on my way back from paying a woman, who saw the whole incident, approached me and reassured me saying that "there was nothing you could have done" and "if it was me, I probably would have made him wait even longer."
Seeing all these people get so aggravated, speeding through parking lots, refusing to let a fellow driver (who is probably in just as big a hurry as you are, I might add) over, and feeling the need to yell or exchange words with someone else, is truly horrifying. Driving seems to be becoming a justifiable precursor to murder for some people; for instance the driver who pulled his GUN on I-95.

It's nothing new that more cars are coming onto the roads each year, creating a lot more traffic, adding to congestion. Patience is not only a virtue but a way to help control stress levels (as does laughing, so the next time you are stuck in traffic take a listen to a favorite comedian).
One of the main reasons we see road rage so much on the road can be linked to depersonalization. When we look at cars on the road do we see the moms, dads, children, church goers, doctors? If we did we would probably have a second thought to spare for them, or at least not express such lewd gestures and foul language. A study mentioned in the linked to article above discussed how rats live together fine until there is "one rat too many" and then they start attacking each other; is that what is happening to us? The species that is supposedly superior and smarter than other animals...
There are many reasons to control the amount of stress in your life, a lot of them pertaining to the health risks they can create. Realizing stressful moments and taking a minute to try and distress yourself can be beneficial to your future and longevity.

A Florida study showed that the smells of peppermint and cinnamon together, while driving, will actually reduce fatigue and frustration while increasing alertness. So, maybe this will help easily aggravated drivers from reverting to primal actions while on the roads.


















